Most of the guys have experienced that keeping a conversation going with a girl they like can be pretty difficult sometimes. Remember, conversation is a two way street. If you are tossing the ball and she is not catching it, your game is just over. We all know that talking to a girl is one of the hardest things. While there are lots of videos or articles that try to complicate the process of how to keep a conversation going with a girl, in reality, it is actually very simple.

It just takes a simple Hi or Hello to start a conversation. But what’s important is that you should know how to start a conversation, where you want to take the conversation or what interesting topics you can discuss to keep it going. Knowing the right words to say can help you spend some time with her, share activities, develop good friendship or possibly to build a relationship with her. And never ask personal questions if you don’t know the person well enough.

Good conversations tends to be positive. This means respond proportionately, be cheerful, listens to what she says and validate it. Never pretend to know something that you don’t have any idea about.

So, to help you talk to women. Here in this article I’ll be sharing 9 amazing tips on How to keep a conversation going with a girl.

How to keep a conversation going with a girl

• Improvise your conversation- Instead of asking her the typical boring questions like “What do you do”, “What are your hobbies? Where are you from? What do you do for fun or time pass?” make improvisations to your conversation. For example, instead of asking her formally “Where are you from”, you could simply ask, “You seem like you are from west Delhi”. If you get the assumptions right, she’ll be impressed and if you get it wrong, she’ll correct you. Once she corrects you, you can go into more detail about it.

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• Don’t ask too many questions, instead come up with statements- It’s known that women likes to talk about themselves a lot, so guys usually reciprocate this behavior by asking a lot of questions. However, in lot of cases, this could be really boring. Instead once the women have given the answer, follow it up with a statement. For instance, if you ask a girl about her pets and she says that she has two, then instead of following up wondering what their names are, simply come up with a better statement like, “You know it is said that people who likes cat are more independent as compared to the dog lovers”. This way you will not only keep the conversation on with her but also it will open the conversation to many other things.

• Forget Facts, Use Emotions- The women are known to be more in touch with their emotions as compared to men and so it makes sense that this would surely be one of the thing that women love to get men to talk about. For instance, when you are talking about a certain subject, instead of going to the statistics or technical side of that subject, simply ask how she feels in that particular thing while doing that. This will open the conversation on a good note and show your sensitive side as well.
• Be a Good Storyteller- There is both positives & negatives while telling a story to someone you’ve just met. On the positive side, as you have just met the person, they don’t know any of your stories so you’re free to tell anything that you like. But unfortunately, they don’t know you, they are also spending time listening to your story while figuring out the qualities of you. So, make sure to be careful about what story you put into a story because the women will be trying to read & listen every line that you put out there.

• Have Fun with her- One of the biggest thing that you can do is teasing her a little during the conversation. You can use innocent recess-like humor like high-fiving her or telling her some stupid corny jokes. This shows that you are not the one who is serious at every waking hour of the day and she’ll remember you as a fun guy that she’d like to talk again.
• Be cheerful- People these days underrate the cheerfulness. But if you think about it seriously then it is actually more fun to talk to a pleasant person than someone who is literally trying to be mysterious or broody. So, while talking to a girl make sure you are cheerful enough to keep the conversation going with her.

• Avoid asking Yes or No questions- If you really want to keep conversation going with a girl then it is advisable that you avoid asking yes or no questions. This is so because when you frame something a yes or no question and she answers it, that’s the end of the topic. Instead you can shape what you are going to say to elicit an emotional response rather than a general one.

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• Remain Present in the conversation- When you are in the conversation it is important to remain present in the conversation. You can remain present in the conversation by listening what other person has to say. So, stop listening to all the thoughts in your head and start actively listening to the person you are talking to. Remember, the more you talk about her, the more important she will feel and the more you listen to her, the more important you will make her feel.

• Be confident- Don’t be shy while talking to a girl because girls can feel it and can lose interest. Be confident. Show her that you are interested in her by maintaining proper eye contact, mirroring her, open palms, etc. Explore more about her interests and pay attention to her.
• Keep Conversation Light- Don’t bring any controversial subject or anything which could make her feel uncomfortable. Also, don’t gossip about others or else she may think that you are genuinely not a nice person. Stay focused coz when you know what’s going on out there, you’ll always have something light or fun to talk about. And, you might just impress her with your subject choice.
• End on a Good note- If she tells you that she has to leave, then tell her you enjoyed talking to her and getting to know her. And if you felt a real connection with her, you can also ask for her number. Then the next morning send her a message saying you had a great time and you might even get a second chance to meet her.

Bottom line- By now you know the ways on how to keep a conversation going with a girl you like. But remember that this takes practice, don’t rush things with her. If a girl loses interest that is completely ok. Just talk & talk with everyone & you’ll definitely get the hang of it.

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