Friendzone is a deep dark hole that some guys just can’t get out of. I am writing this article to give some tips of how not to get Friendzoned. First of all make sure that you avoid the friendzone in the very first place but if you are already in the friendzone, I am gonna share how to get out of friendzone for good.

Before moving on the ways to get rid of this “Friendzone” thing. Let’s get to know what exactly this word mean and how it can change your life entirely.

What is a Friendzone?

The Friendzone is basically a situation where there is a mismatch in romantic feelings between two individuals who knows each other very well. It is a tricky place to fall in. You get close to a girl and tell her that you like her, but she turns around and tells you are more like a friend to her.

Most of the times guys find themselves into the friendzone which is really frustrating, demeaning, and at times, even inevitable.

Friendzone is quite a happy place for girls for very obvious reasons. It’s a place where she can sit with a guy and talk about anything without getting into any kind of relationship with him.

But for a Guy, it is the worst place to be in, especially when he really likes the girl but has to behave like a good best buddy.

Why do Guys end up falling into the friend zone?

There are many reasons that boys end up getting into this trap called “Friendzone”.

1. They behave like good decent friend all the time.
2. They never let the girl to know about their intentions of being more than a friend.
3. Took just too long to make a move.
4. Never tried romantic dating relationship with her.
5. Plays true Friends card with whom she goes ahead and dates every single guy in the world but not “HIM”.

So, there are endless reasons of them being Friendzoned because they literally allowed themselves to get into this. They just sit passively and hopes that suddenly a day will come and she’ll fall for you. And surely that day comes and she puts you into the category of “Friendzone”.

If you are the one who wants to escape yourself from this category, then don’t just waste your time in hoping and pretending a good friend. Instead, do something about it.

To become the love interest of the girl you like, it’s really very important that you immediately take a look at your current relationship and make some necessary changes that I’ll be sharing in this article:

How Not to get Friendzoned?

1. Just break the “Nice Guy” and “Best friends” stereotype- The most obvious reason that the guys ends up with Freindzone tag is because they have adopted the “Nice Guy” or “Best Friends” role way too seriously. Once you get into this role, it becomes real hard to share your feelings with the girl you like. You may feel that confessing about your feelings can ruin your friendship.

And it’s ok to consider the possible outcomes but to get out of the friendzone , you must find          the confidence to let her know about your feelings. Be confident enough to tell her verbally or        through your actions, that you’re interested in being more than just friends with her.

2. Give her Space- No matter how much you love to being around her, the essential key to grab her attention is by letting her feel your incompleteness when you are not around. Don’t always say yes to whatever plans of outing she comes up with. Just stop hanging out with her or calling her on regular basis. Why is it important? Well, Being present all the time with her will solidify your friendship, leading you closer to the friendzone.

But don’t confuse not being available with avoiding. Just stop hanging out way too often with        her. Let her know your worth and importance.

3. Don’t Play Safe- When you get to know the person, you should know whether or not you are attracted to them pretty quickly. And if you are, then Don’t just play safe. If are gonna sit and wait for something to happen, it will happen and somebody will come in and take that opportunity. So, don’t just take a chance & risk of losing her. But this also doesn’t mean that you go to her and say “Hey come over, I like you, Be my girlfriend or other stuff”. Don’t do that but make sure that you let her know that you like her.

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4. Show her that other women wants you- Often times people don’t realize what they actually want until they can’t have it. In other words, to get your crush interested in you, make yourself romantically unavailable. Let her know that you are wanted by others. You can do this by simply going out on a date with other women. There would nothing really serious about the date but your crush doesn’t know that.

In simple words, when your love interest sees that you are desirable, they may start rethinking    about the relationship. This could be a big chance for you to get out of the friend zone and win        her heart.

5. Break the touch Barrier- Breaking the touch barrier is really important if you don’t want to get into the friend zone. This doesn’t mean just go and grab her. All I am saying is let’s take the first move in a subtle way. Suppose you guys are at bar or talking to each other, just come a bit of closer to her and her actions will tell you whether or not she likes that approach.

Or just touch her on the upper back, arms and hands as it is socially acceptable and this                creates strong attraction between the two. So, touch her, analyze whether she likes it or not            and the chances of you ending up in the friend zone can drop to zero. But if she doesn’t like          this approach, don’t go further and let things be as they are.

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6. Ask her out to go on a Date- Another great way of escaping yourself from the Friendzone trap is by asking your girl to go out on a date. If she becomes hesitant, rephrase your proposal by calling it a non-date. Because the main purpose is spending time with her and once you’ve spent time together, you can convince her to go on a romantic date with you. Don’t lose hope if she turns you down for the first time. Keep trying your best till the time she notices your romantic feelings. Just be brave enough to move things to the next level.

7. Be Mysterious- Don’t be an open book because the foundation of attraction is mystery. It triggers the women’s curiosity to know more about you. She may even develop a certain kind of interest towards you. Just add a bit of mystery to you and she’ll herself take you out of the friendzone. To keep her interested, make sure your life seems full and exciting.

So, don’t just be friends with women when you want more from her. Take a move and come out of the Friendzone tag using the tips given above.

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